5 Tips on How To Get Out of a Reading Rut

Sometimes we get into reading slumps.  It happens and it's normal.  I've developed some techniques that help me trudge through these ruts.  Especially with the end of the year sneaking up on us.  Gotta get our Goodreads goals accomplished!


1. Ask your friend to pick a book for you to read.

Every month the Book BFFs do a feature where we randomly assign each other a BFF and then pick a book for them to read that month based on what we know about their reading tastes.  Sometimes your friends know you better than yourself and will pick a book that'll get you out of your slump.

2. Reread a favorite
@CelineNYX suggested this one to me recently and it's great advice.  Sometimes we just need to remember why we love reading so much.  And the best way to do that is to go on an adventure we already know we will enjoy.  Jennifer L. Armentrout, Sarah Dessen, and JK Rowling are my go to authors.
3. Try a really hyped up book
CAUTION: this may backfire.  I did this once and was lucky.  I picked up Shadow and Bone when I was not in the mood to read.  I had heard such great things and decided what the heck.  Luckily it was an amazing read.  But I think most of the time hype is true so if you pick something that bloggers you trust loved chances are you'll love it too.

4. Watch BookTubers
I'm once again advocating for BookTube.  Whenever I'm in a slump if I watch some people gush about how much they love books it makes me want to read.  Sometimes our love for reading is contagious.

5. Take a break
This sounds counter productive, but really sometimes we just need a break.  Book bloggers are not robots and I think we forget that because we feel like there's such little time and so many books to read. But sometimes recharging your battery so to speak will do you some good.  After a big readathon I tend to take a week to just catch up on tv and relax.  It really works!

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What are your tips for getting out of a slump?


Weird Bookish Habits


I didn't realize it before, but I have a lot of habits that I HAVE to do every day that involve how/when/where I read.  Do you do any of these things or am I just weird...actually maybe don't answers that.




But for real, let me know if you do any of these things.  What are some of your weird book habits that I didn't mention?


Over-Hyped & Under Appreciated Books

Some amazing books seem to slip between the cracks and no one ever mentions them.  While other books that are just okay are hyped up, made into movies, have merchandise sold for them, are on everyone's blogs, etc.  I'm not sure why this happens, but it makes me sad that some of these books are not talked about more.


What do you think?  Did I miss any good books that are under appreciated?  What about any hyped books I didn't mention?


Random Thoughts Thursday: Heroines Then and Now


     Growing up I wish there had been more characters like Katniss.  Instead I remember a lot of the Disney princesses being rescued by guys and just crying if something went wrong instead of fighting back or coming up with a solution.  Except Mulan...she kicked ass.
Exhibit A
  But apparently even Mulan isn't immune to tears.  Can someone please explain why all Disney princesses cry in the same position?   Anyways, I could always rely on books to give me the role models I yearned for when movies where just not cutting it.  Here are a few I loved.
        
I loved these characters...especially Samantha Parkington...she was my homegirl.  Can you think of any others I missed?    

Now my role models are a little different living in dystopian worlds and what not, but they still have the same basic characteristics of the heroines above that I love.  Here's a short video on my current favorite heroines.

Do we have any in common?
Who are your favorites?


Random Thoughts Thursday: YA Reading Rainbow: 2013 Covers



Cover Art Trends in 2013
We all know I'm a teensy bit obsessed with cover art.  I buy books sometimes because I love the cover and then proceed to pet that pretty cover...just kidding sort of.  Well, one day while on goodreads I wondered what trends were popular for 2013 YA covers and decided to put this together.  I think it's safe to say black and white covers with Red font is popular.  Also, surprisingly yellow is pretty popular as well.  My favorite of course is the green column.  And while I hate to encourage it, I really like some of the black covers.  I think the white are kind of boring though.  They don't catch my eye in stores at all.      


Did I miss any good covers?  What is your favorite column?

I'm not a binge reader: Pros & Cons of Reading Books as They Are Published


     I recently got a little click happy on B&N.com and ended up buying the second book in a bunch of series that I've been reading.  And if you've seen me around the blogosphere lately you know I'm a little too excited for Bout Of Books 7.0 this month.  That's because I intend to reread the first books of those series I just bought and then start on the second.  I know I definitley have to reread those first books because I can't remember everything that happened in them.  I read those about a year ago and my memory is slowly getting worse with age.  So it got me thinking about which is better:

Starting a series before or after all the books have been published?

     I find that I personally like to read books as they come out.  I don't mind rereading the first book.  So here are the Pros and Cons of reading books as they are published.

1. Anticipation of the next book coming out (twitter parties, cover reveals, & WOW posts) is fun.
2. Getting the chance to review an ARC or egalley of it is super exciting.
3. You have more people to talk about it with.  Everyone's reading it at the same time and wanting to chat (like when Clockwork Princess came out twitter and exploded with updates as people read it).


1. Cover changes can screw up your collection (I have the old Shatter Me and the new Unravel Me and my OCD doesn't like it!)
2. You can't read them one right after the other so rereads are usually necessary.
3. This goes with #2...if there is a huge cliffhanger at the end of a book you can't start the next book right away and the wait can be torturous (Jennifer L. Armentrout I'm lookin at you girl!)

     Don't get me wrong, waiting until all the books are out in a series can be just as great of an experience.  I discovered devoured The Hunger Games, The Mortal Instruments, and Vampire Academy series once all the books were already out.  In a way it was great because I could go to the library and take all the books out at once and just drown in a sea of amazing books.  I was tempted to make book angels (like snow angels--in case you were wondering) and just read until I finished the series.  But something was missing.  I didn't really have anyone to fangirl over them with because people weren't really excited about VA as  much anymore since the first book was published in like 2007.  And there was no built up excitement prior to reading it.  I kind of just stumbled upon those series.
  
     So which do you prefer?  Are you a binge reader?  Do you wait until a series comes out with the last book to dive in?  Or are you like me and you anxiously wait for each book in the series to come out?


Random Thoughts Thursday: Weird Names in YA




I've read a few posts that made want to do a discussion post like this.  Katie talks about how weird names frustrate her.  I read another post at Book Brats that got me thinking.

It seems like authors are trying to out do each other with ridiculous character names.  Kind of like Michael Jackson's child BLANKET or Gweneth Paltrow's kid APPLE.  Like really?  
I can't even...
I agree with Katie, when authors pick crazy names it makes me hesitant to read the book.  Let me tell you a story about little Melissa.
Rockin the 90's flower jumper!

Amish Vs. Abnegation

Ever watch the show Breaking Amish?  A few months ago I was watching this show and out of nowhere I just starting thinking about how much the Amish lifestyle reminded me of the Abnegation factor in the Divergent series.  

  A few months later I read Temptation by Karen Ann Hopkins where an English girl falls for an Amish boy.  And again I just kept comparing the two lifestyles.  

I've sort of become fascinated by this way of life.  It makes sense on paper that stripping our lives of electronics and greed would be good, but I don't think I could handle getting rid of all of it.  There are times I think I like the Amish lifestyle, but then I think (excuse the language)  
I'd never be able to live without indoor plumbing, microwaves, pants, books, etc.  The week we lost electricity from hurricane sandy I had to take cold showers by candle light and it was terrible!

Anyways, got a little side tracked there, but here's what I've noticed while reading. 

For those of you who have read Divergent...have you seen any other similarities?  And would you be able to live in an Amish community or Abnegation faction?



Cover Makeovers: Good or Bad?

How do you feel when a great book gets a makeover? 


As most of you know by now, I am guilty of judging books by their covers.  But really that's what covers are there for.  Their purpose is to give the reader a little slice of what the book is about so the reader can decide if they want to pick up the book and read the summary.  So you can imagine how frustrated I am when I find books being republished with new covers that are not as pretty or have nothing to do with the book.  Yes, I understand it's sometimes to target a new demographic, but still.  Why ruin a good thing.  Take a look at some changes I found.



About a week ago I was on twitter and saw that Giselle from Xpresso Reads had posted a new cover for the Across the Universe series.  I really didn't like the change.  If I had seen these new covers I wouldn't even pick up the book.  Which is sad really (I should really learn not to judge covers), but I know I'm not the only one.  I love the colors in the first one and they give you an idea that it's set in space and involve a boy and a girl.  The second covers just look more boyish and metal-ish.  

              

Shatter Me is such a great novel.  I love the original cover because it shows the main character as being very powerful and it looks like she's shattering glass with her mind since her hands are behind her back.  The second cover, while I think it's gorgeous, doesn't tell you a single thing about the book.  And really the book has nothing to do with her eyes.  If anything it should show Juliette's hands since that's where her power lies.

Is Romance in books unrealistic?

the notebook

Today I get to witness my grandbig* marry her best friend (her boyfriend since 6th grade).  Seeing them together always reminds me that true love does exist and even gives me hope that we all have a soul mate.  But while I've dated a lot in high school and college I kind of gave up on trying to find love when I moved home after graduating.  This past year I started reading lots of YA -the Hunger Games was my gateway to YA.  And I started to look at how love was portrayed in these YA books.  I made lots of observations and would like to share how I think YA books (and even adult fiction) are very unrealistic in the love department.  We maybe not be reading fairy tales like Cinderella every night before bed, but are we reading books that are setting us up for unrealistic expectations and disappointment? 

This is personal: My thoughts on undying hope

I know it's not Thursday, but I had a random thought that's very personal and felt the need to share.  


It has been a year since I graduated college.  I can't believe I am saying that already.  It feels like it was just yesterday that I was walking across that stage in an oversized robe not a care in the world.  And yet here I am 12 months later in almost the same position I was in then.  

Random Thoughts Thursday: New Adult


New Adult Genre
Finally some hope for us twenty somethings

As a kid, every few years you graduate to a new genre of reading. Starting with picture books and ending with YA.  Sadly at this point most people either grow out of reading or just simply don't have time because they are in college or working full time.  Then they don't pick up reading again until they're in their thirties and life has calmed down.  For the record, when I say most people I mean all my friends (and not the blogging community).  Because so few people in their twenties read, the market for stories with characters in their twenties is very limited.  

A new genre has been proposed for protagonists in college or anyone from the ages of 18-30 ish.  I'm not sure if it will really happen since introducing a new genre is a big deal and can't just happen overnight.  I really hope it does happen because each year older that I get I seem to have more difficulty relating to characters in the YA genre.  For example, I look at love differently than I did in high school.  So when a 17 year old protagonist is practically slitting her wrists because a boy dumped her I'm practically yelling at the pages "Move on!  You'll meet so many cute guys in college you'll forget this guy!" It can be very frustrating, but I prefer to read about high school rather than a divorced wife with 3 kids, something I have not yet experienced at all yet.   

Some argue that there are plenty of YA books that are relate-able for adults, like The Hunger Games.  I don't know about you, but to me Katniss is way more mature than any 16 year old I've ever known.  And really most stories like Harry Potter and HG have mature characters because they are facing death and obviously death matures you quicker than anything else.  So even if I can relate to YA characters on some level, I'd still rather read about someone my own age going through experiences like college, graduating, deciding you don't want to do what you went to school for, not being able to find a job, getting that first job, moving out, not having enough money to move out, all your friends getting engaged, etc. 

One blogger has started a New Adult genre challenge.  Danya at A Tapestry of Words has started this in hopes of  helping other twenty somethings find books in this genre easily and giving them a place to chat about it.  You can read her letter to the publishers here  about why this genre should exist.  

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If you are interested in joining the fun click the picture above or join on goodreads here.  


Yael Itamar has written a similar post which brings up other good points about this topic.  If you'd like to read her post you can do so here.

For all my fellow 20ers...How do you feel about this topic?

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